Why do boys from your past always try to contact you

Its funny how some guys never seem to forget you. A guy that fucked me in 2010 and hasn't spoken to me in over a year  just sent me an email asking - Hey there - haven't heard from your lovely self in an age :-) What's up, how's every little thing?

I considering whether I should reply as I have no intention of fucking him again. So I should probably ignore it.

The other guy who was recently got in contact was a guy who broke it off after the first date. His reason was that he was looking for something more serious. I guess he isn't looking for something serious now. He is very attractive so I am very tempted. But of me thinks he had his chance and he blew it.

I am a person who wants to move forward in life not backwards. But boys from your past always want to drag you back into the past.

I'm not sure if these guys are too lazy  to find new connections or struggle to forget me. But I think it must be laziness.

I havent blogged in a while so I thought I should blog

So there are few things that I have happened I briefly got back with the Ex so he could scratch my sexual itch. But then he started being a dickhead so I have dumped him again. But this time is the last time. The dumping of the Ex was encouraged by a movie called  Synecdoche , New York. The movie is uplifting and depressing in places. But it really encourages you not to waste a second of you life. Ultimately  I feel like I am wasting my life with the Ex. So I have to end it. So I have been spending my time going to the odd meetup on meetup.com and going to the cinema and seeing friends. I am also focused on trying to start up my own business as a virtual assistant. I hopeful it will work.I also still want to go to Uni so I am focused on trying to finding a 9-5 job so I can go to Uni in the evening.