One of the guys I met online dating is really interesting he is 10 years older than me. But it doesn't seem like it when we talk. We are into some of the same things . I hang out his workplace and we drink tea and chat. He offers me so much not money wise but experience wise. He is so open and generous with his time.We are just friends but I'm starting to like him. But in the back of my head I'm just waiting for it all to change and for him to start playing games and hurting my feelings.
I know it wont ever be traditional dating if and when we get together meals out, cinema, gigs, etc. But I would rather not have those things if its insincere and just to get into my knickers.
I know my friends will say I'm being a cheap date. But I'm not traditional I have never felt comfortable with a guy buying me dinner , etc or spending lots of money on me. It makes me feel pressured to put out. I would rather split the bill after a couple of dates. Dating can be so expensive if you are paying for everything. So I have sympathy for guys.
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